Cute > Hot

In my opinion..

How do you cheat on someone? Someone who has given 100% trust to you and calls you theirs…

There are people who long for someone to call theirs…

One day you wont have someone to call yours…

She/He is a privilege, not a right..

It would be easier if I had a power that let me look at someone and knew if they thought I was hot or liked me…

People say first impressions are the most important thing when meeting someone. It is also said that beauty captures attention then personality captures the heart. So with that being said if you never capture someones attention because you are not beautiful and thats always the first impression…then what?

Another game love plays…

Who are you (general public ) to say gay people cant get married and love each other? For all you know they could be more in love with their partner than you have ever been with your wife which you took a holy union under God when you decided to get married. SMH If you are going to bash on them, re evaluate your position first people…

Please correct me if I’m wrong.

Just a thought…

There will always be someone out there who is better than you in every aspect of your life, except being you. So with that being said what do you have to offer him/her that someone else can’t?

Sometimes I wonder. Do people really love each other? Or is love just another fad that people want to be a part of. I asked a question to a friend which went something like..” If you could erase your relationship and go back to when it never happened/ no repercussions and date a woman/actress w/e that you think is super beautiful/that you liked, would you? His hesitation is what got to me. Of course people will say “no” because of principle but I wonder deep deep down inside would they choose to? And of course there is no way to prove that they will not, but I just think most people these days would. Love isn’t the same these days and the idea seems to have changed from what it used to be/what I believe it is. I see people in relationships saying they would have sex with other guys and how such and such person is their baby daddy and such. Its one thing to say a person is attractive, thats understandable. But when you step over that line is when you have people wondering…..

IDK just stuff I was thinking about..

I try not to call many people beautiful, its just one of those things with me. Not because I’m a jerk but because I have a different idea of what beautiful is. I hear the saying don’t call a girl hot call her beautiful but I disagree with that. If you are a good looking person I will say you are pretty or handsome and thats as far as I go. To me to be beautiful its not just about what it is on the outside you have to be beautiful on the inside. If I don’t know you I can’t say you are beautiful. Beautiful = Full of beauty right? Maybe after I get to know you I can say you are a beautiful person, which is probably my biggest compliment I give because that means I see your whole self and I like it :).

Something like that.. I’m sure you get the picture.

So the other day at work I was talking to my co worker about a beautiful young lady that walked into our store and bought something. She was Indian and super gorgeous.

So my co worker asks if I saw the beautiful Indian girl and I agreed and the conversation went on.

He told me how he thinks Indian girls and other ethnic women are beautiful. He said he likes Latin women and he dated plenty of them (he is a white guy) and his wife is Hispanic.

What struck me as weird the most was…when I said he is lucky to have a Hispanic lady as his wife and that she must be beautiful he tells me and I quote “Nah she isn’t even that beautiful compared to some of the other girls I have dated.”

………

Um in my head this is exactly what I was thinking.

“Da Faq bro? Are you kidding me? This is your wife you are talking about. She should be the most beautiful person on the planet to you. How dare you talk about her like so.”

Maybe its just me but to me my wife will be the most beautiful person in my eyes. Sure girls will be pretty and such but I would never think they are anything compared to my wife. How do guys these days treat girls like they are just a body and nothing more. To have the nerve to say such a thing? IDK

it may just be my mindset, I see women and love and all that stuff a bit differently than most people.

In my eyes my girl will be a princess and the most beautiful girl ever. I would only look at a girl to compare her to mine and think of all the reasons why my girl is better. ALWAYS

*sigh* IDK what he meant by what he said but I took it that way and it’s was something I thought about.

What is it these days? Where people never taught its rude to decline something that is being offered (only if its a positive thing of course)? Its not humbling when you say you’re not. I’m not saying you’re beautiful because you think you are. I’m saying it because I think you are. How are you going to tell me that you are not when I think you are? Do you know what I’m thinking? Are you me?

*sigh* Even if you don’t think you are, it’s how I see you and when I compliment you I mean it. So just say “thanks” and accept it. You’re not being humble when you reject how another human being perceives you… think about it like that.

Seriously…

This feeling I have, I can’t describe it. You may call it love but that wouldn’t do it justice. When you can’t sleep because they’re on your mind all the time. As time go on it gets harder and harder to unwind. That feeling when you can talk for countless hours about things that are irrelevant and still find them interesting. When you can see them at their worst and find them attractive, is such a beautiful thing. You can’t even feel sad because they brighten up your day with just a thought. Maybe its love telling me that I don’t have to put on this façade. When you can’t listen to your favorite songs because everyone of ‘em reminds you of them. Is it a gift or a curse? This feeling hurts, but at the same time I don’t want to let it go. It’s the only thing that keeps me going, keeps me smiling, even if I can’t have her and I have to let her go. You know that feeling you have, when you know no one could love them as much you can? It could be just part of their plan, to make you wait; string you along till your heart might break. But in the end no matter what they say.”I don’t love you”, you just smile and pretend to walk away. But you know in your heart that they’re there to stay. This feeling I have, indescribable. A myriad of pessimists couldn’t change the way I feel, I guess that’s why it’s beautiful. Just like her, who’s just likes me. I guess, that’s why I think she’s perfect for me. You know they say the spaces in between your fingers are made for someone to put theirs in between. Well I guess I’ll keep my palms outstretched and maybe just maybe she’ll want to be my queen. It’s this feeling I have…